Forum Discussions

Ok so these forums are seeming to be a popular way of airing ones views at the moment on a variety of topics, etc. One must realise that these are sometimes link to a lot of businesses so please above all else remember your comments may harm business if common sense and politeness are not observed. Just an observation in recent times of some I have visited personally. I invite comments on these and any of my posts at anytime. So please dont hesitate to ask me anything and I will help where I can ok.

What Women Like

Now this post is another kind of tips or help guide for you guys as to a few things what women like.
These things do not and are not always what you expect or expensive. Sometimes its the inexpensive gifts that say a lot. Some are surprising but informative also ok. So please feel free to contact me about any questions further to this post ok.
Heres some tips to help you ok:
- The ocassional bunch of flowers is nice and dont have to cost the earth ( no going and raiding the neighbours garden either).
- A bottle of wine is always well received, and if your able to ask what sort the lady likes so its easy for you to get the right one. And who knows your kindness maybe repaid by the lady preparing a cheese and cracker or salami platter to enjoy with the bottle of wine.
- A lunch out and this can be a restaurant or even just a cafe near the water. Even a nice meal of fish and chips seaside is nice for a change. (Who knows you may be lucky enough to have a lady who invests in an Entertainment Book).
- Nicely manicured fingernails for playing in a certain place is always seen as going just that extra mile and is showing you actually have thought about where you are playing. I will endeavour to find a few places who will provide this service to you guys. Along with pedicures.
- Colours in clothing is always cool so think outside the square occasionally. Try and vary the browns,blacks, greys with at least a splash of colour.
- If your budget allows maybe some perfume would be nice but its good to ask or even better try and note what sort your lady prefers, then you know which one to get. This also doesn't have to be the biggest bottle.
- Who knows even tickets to a rugby game or the races may surprise you as being a well received gift.
- Also even just cuddles, and spending time together with walks on the beach or viaduct,etc with coffee is nice,simple things say a lot sometimes.
- Be observant where ever possible with what the lady already likes and uses is always handy as gifts are always appreciated.
- Also if you just don't know what sort of thing she uses or has, gift vouchers are always acceptable.
-Just another tip to help you lads as I have found that some need a little help in this area STILL. Is we like politeness, in particular unless you have meet someone it is ALWAYS polite to PHONE the person first. Never text them on initial contact. I do of course realise most already know this but yes there are still some out there that need a little help in this area ok. So for the already "on to it" ones of you I say a BIG Thank You. And hope this tip helps the ones of you that need this little gem of a tip.

So I hope these few tips help and as I research this some more I will add other tips for you lads ok.

Abbey's Guide to Adult Industry - Private

This is a helpful guide to contacting a Private Adult Industry Worker:

- Always have a cellular phone - That is NZ compatible.

- If answering a newspaper advert and the person has a website associated with their advert,please visit there first before phoning the person (as newspapers are limited as to what adult material they can print by law). And websites can allow a LOT more information.

- Most Hotels, Motels do have guest use computors available.

- When telephoning a private person always give the person at LEAST half an hour to prepare for your visit (as Parlors usually handle "walk-in" trade.

- Never turn up without a booking first.

- If English is your 2nd (or 3rd) language please explain this at the outset of your initial phonecall.

-When quoted prices these are usually not negoiable unless at the discression of the person

- Do not get offended if the person does not choose to take the booking. It is the person's right to refuse as they are working for themselves and may have reasons why. There are PLENTY to choose from. Also this is helpful as it saves wasting both of the persons time.

- Please do not ask for UNSAFE SEX PRACTICES as this is not nice to have to refuse on either side.

- If you do not have the correct amount of NZ currency this maybe , at the decression of the person, and made be made up with the following acceptible ones:
UK POUNDS;USA GREENBACKS; and AUSTRALIAN DOLLARS.
- If you cannot keep a booking Please Ring and let the person know. As this is courteous.
- If unsure of the address look up on a map as to ensure you have got where you are going correct. most give good directions so please listen to the directions carefully.
- Texting is impolite and is seen as "Harrassment Using A Form Of Commmunications Device". So It is good to be polite first up as your appointment can be refused on this basis. So Please ALWAYS ring the person concerned to make an appointment. Politeness is always the key to a successful outcome for both sides.
NB: New Tips will be added to this page at different times so do check it from time to time to make the experiences pleasant and informed for both parties ok. Starting with 2 new tips:

- Please check to see if there are not more than one ad or person attached to ads as there can quite often be more than one with the same name. (double-ups) And this can cause embarrassment on both sides. Just ask if the person has more than one ad on the fone call.

- If saying at an airport motel and looking at making an appointment for nighttime. It is advisible to ring and book time earlier in the day(Book ahead to avoid disappointment). So both travelling costs and time is kept to a minimum for both parties.